Yes, we should be banning social media for under-16s — big tech does not see us as humans (2024)

Welcome to The Friday Fight. Join us ringside for our new weekly debate series where we invite two writers to make their case on a hotly contested topic.

In our inaugural debate we are tossing up the question: should children under the age of 16 be banned from using social media? The idea has bipartisan political support with backing from both Anthony Albanese and Peter Dutton, but has been question by experts.

In the affirmative corner we have Charlotte Mortlock, former political reporter and founder of Hilma’s Network, which aims to get women into the Liberal Party. And arguing the negative, Crikey’s very own associate editor Cam Wilson.

If something is free, you are the product. Big tech is not a charity. They are not providing us all with free access to their platforms because they want us to be “connected”. They don’t see us as humans, they see us as products, data and engagement. All of which equate to dollars. That is literally their only incentive.

We have just run one of the most inhumane social experiments in history without any guardrails in place, because big tech told us to. We sold a generation of children to make big tech rich. Should we keep sacrificing the young and indefensible, now that we know how harmful it is, or pretend it’s out of our hands?

US surgeon general Vivek Murthy recently said: “Adolescents who spend more than three hours a day on social media face double theriskof anxiety and depression symptoms.”

Rolling Stone just did an exposé on how Snapchat has been fueling a teen opioid crisis with drugs being sold on their platform. TikTok users with eating disorders are 4,000 times more likely to be shown harmful appearance-related videos. Instagram’s algorithms are promoting a paedophile network selling child sexual abuse material.

The very people who created Facebook and know it inside out believe this too. Former Facebook vice president for growth, Chamath Palihapitiya, has banned his children from the very platform he helped create, saying they “aren’t allowed to use that sh*t”. He knows his children would merely be used as a money-making product.

Typically, I believe in small government and less regulation. But that doesn’t extend to children. Smoking. Alcohol. Driving. Sex. Heck, even voting. When your brain is still developing and maturing, frankly, you are not equipped to make decisions that could be dangerous to you or ruin your life, which is why we try to mitigate those options where possible. A young, fresh, malleable brain is plainly no match for the manipulation waged by big tech to keep you addicted to a machine so they can sell you products you don’t need. Even a fully-formed adult brain falls under its spell.

We don’t even let children decide what they eat for every meal because they would make bad choices. So isn’t it profoundly reckless to hand them the world in their pocket and expect them to make responsible decisions that are in their best interests?

Jaron Lanier, my personal hero and perhaps the smartest person in the universe, was at the helm of Silicon Valley when it took off. He has been dubbed the godfather of virtual reality and a pioneer of the internet. He also wants you to quit social media.

“When it became undeniable that lead was harmful, no-one declared that houses should never be painted again. Instead, after pressure and legislation, lead-free paints became the new standard,” he wrote.

The laziest people in society right now will say, “we can’t put the genie back in the bottle, social media is here to stay”. What a defeatist, apathetic argument.

Just as Lanier pointed out, we didn’t stop painting houses, we created lead-free paint. Necessity is the mother of invention, and e-safety is about to be supreme. Dare to dream for a moment that maybe a social-media-free device could one day be a reality. Oh! That day is already here. Strap in for an unsponsored plug.

We’re all a bit institutionalised by Apple and Google so it’s hard to imagine alternative devices, but they’ve done diddly-squat to meet safety concerns so I’m pleased to see other options coming in thick and fast. Pinwheel has been created for parents who want to be able to contact their kids, or their kids to be able to contact them, but want to protect them from the risks of the internet. The phone is controlled entirely by the parent, has GPS and Spotify, but no web browsing or social media apps.

There have been some great conversations about exactly how the social media giants would verify the age of a user and whether it was even possible to do so. I’ll say off the bat that I don’t believe this is the government’s responsibility to solve. Governments create legislation, it is private companies’ responsibility to meet them. Given the insane profit margins and big brains that work for them, I think they’ll manage just fine. If we still can’t figure it out, I nominate (without his consent) former NSW minister and unparalleled digital service guru, Victor Dominello, to solve the problem.

One of the things parents struggle with most when preventing their kids accessing social media is their children guilting them (perhaps rightly!) that they will be exiled and left out if they are the only one without a phone. If it’s illegal, that should do a fairly good job of bolstering parents’ argument. “Oh but Sally’s mum let her have a fake account”. Great. Sally’s mum is a criminal. Night night.

DING! DING! DING! CRIKEY EDITORS DECLARE MORTLOCK HAS OFFICIALLY PASSED HER ALLOCATED WORD COUNT

It would be remiss of me to write this piece without making a predictable (if you know me) rant about algorithms. Banning social media for kids doesn’t make it a safe space for adults. Social media algorithms are ruining the world. They are eroding our democracy by first siloing us and then polarising us to the fringes of politics. They are dividing young boys and girls by feeding us the manosphere or anorexic women. They are leading paedophiles to young children. They are making men more abusive.

This is a digital drug causing society to splinter and individuals to lose their minds. Using algorithms against children must be illegal and for adults they should at least be transparent and opt-in. I have infinite hatred for this mechanism, the damage it has done to our world and immense fear for what more it can still destroy if we let it.

The internet was supposed to make everything feel bigger, but it has made us claustrophobic and inundated with fear. It was supposed to create a sense of community, but it is ripping us apart as every aspect of our life is pushed into a virtual reality.

DING! DING! DING! CRIKEY EDITORS REMIND MORTLOCK SHE HAS NOW OFFICIALLY PASSED MAXIMUM WORD COUNT BY MORE THAN 200 WORDS

I’ll finish by quoting Jaron Lanier one more time who I recommend everyone reads up on if they want a reality check of what we are wilfully partaking in.

“I thought this idea of trying to make everything free in exchange for advertising would inevitably lead to a manipulative society … That you could set up a computer to be like an automated behaviourist to manipulate people and it would eventually become so cheap to do that you could create an insane, dysfunctional, unhappy society pretty easily.”

Do you agree with Charlotte or with Cam? Should we ban under-16s from social media, or do we need to take a different approach? Let us know your thoughts by writing to letters@crikey.com.au. Please include your full name to be considered for publication. We reserve the right to edit for length and clarity.

Yes, we should be banning social media for under-16s — big tech does not see us as humans (2024)

FAQs

Why should social media be banned for under 16s? ›

From a research perspective, a 2023 review found “Evidence from 50 studies in 17 countries indicates that social media usage leads to body image concerns, eating disorders/disordered eating and poor mental health”.

Why is social media bad for under 16? ›

Lead to information that is biased or not correct. Become a means to spread rumors or share too much personal information. Lead some teens to form views about other people's lives or bodies that aren't realistic. Expose some teens to online predators, who might try to exploit or extort them.

Why should social media be 16+? ›

We can see all these complications in submissions to the Joint Select Committee on Social Media and Australian Society. Some groups support banning young people from social media for their mental health and wellbeing and to protect them from predators, p*rnography and misinformation.

Why should we ban social media? ›

Social Media Compromises Mental Health

Teens who spend more than three hours a day on social media are twice as likely to experience mental health issues like depression and anxiety. Excessive social media use is also linked to poor sleep, body image, and self-esteem.

Is it illegal for a 12 year old to use social media? ›

IS 13 THE MAGIC AGE FOR SOCIAL MEDIA? There's already, technically, a rule that prohibits kids under 13 from using platforms that advertise to them without parental consent: The Children's Online Privacy Protection Act that went into effect in 2000, before today's teenagers were even born.

Why shouldn't 13 year olds have social media? ›

Teens can easily access extreme, inappropriate, and harmful content. In certain cases, deaths have been linked to suicide- and self-harm-related content, such as “cutting,” partial asphyxiation, and risk-taking challenges on social media platforms, according to Dr. Murthy's report.

Should I let my 12 year old get social media? ›

Due to the various dangers and effects of social media, it is necessary that parents restrict their children from using social media until at least 13 years old. At that age, they may introduce those apps to their children so the process becomes more gradual and easier to monitor.

Is social media bad for kids, yes or no? ›

Social media can keep kids from their studies, disrupt their sleep, sour their mood and erode self-esteem. Recent research shows that adolescents who use social media for more than three hours per day face double the risk of depression and anxiety symptoms.

What age is OK for social media? ›

It is also important for parents to realize that 13 is the minimum age for most social media sites.

Why is 16 an important age? ›

For many, the 16th birthday celebrates adulthood and marks the end of a childhood. As the name suggests, the celebration takes place on a sixteenth birthday and is celebrated across all genders, though it is typically more common with girls.

Why is social media good for minors? ›

Social media can provide benefits for some youth by providing positive community and connection with others who share identities, abilities, and interests. It can provide access to important information and create a space for self-expression.

How much time do 16 year olds spend on social media? ›

U.S. teens average time spent on social networks per day 2023. According to a 2023 survey conducted in the United States, teenagers spent an average of 4.8 hours on social media platforms every day.

Why should social media be banned for kids under 16? ›

The U.S. Surgeon General has warned that misuse of social media can increase the risk of children developing mental health issues, like eating disorders, anxiety and depression. Other potential dangers include cyberbullying, online predators and inappropriate material.

What are the 3 main reasons why social media is bad? ›

The more time spent on social media can lead to cyberbullying, social anxiety, depression, and exposure to content that is not age appropriate.

Is it OK to avoid social media? ›

Social media can be a major distraction, pulling your attention away from your goals and priorities. By quitting social media, you can eliminate this distraction and focus more on achieving your personal and professional goals. Ironically, quitting social media can actually make you more social in real life.

Why should kids under 14 not have social media? ›

Risks of Using Social Media

Risks include being subject to cyberbullying and online harassment, placing inappropriate content online, Facebook depression, and decreased sleep. Cyberbullying is quite common and has frequently been in the news in recent years.

Why are kids under the age of 13 banned from most social media sites? ›

Generally, the 13-year age requirement is not necessarily because the site is unsafe for children to use but to comply with a US law — the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 (COPPA), which prevents collection and storage of personal information from children under 13 years of age.

Why is social media inappropriate for kids? ›

Inappropriate or Harmful Content

They may also see risky or dangerous content that can include violence, self-harm, eating disorders, or discrimination toward some groups of people. There's a lot of false and inaccurate information online that can mislead kids, with potentially harmful consequences.

Should I let my 15 year old have social media? ›

Dr. Sarah Jerstad, the clinical director of psychological services at Children's Minnesota, said 14 years old is a healthy age to start social media. She got that age recommendation from a study on social media and youth mental health done by the U.S. Surgeon General.

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